'wil' the real wilfred please stand up!

[djspinnet]

GETTING TO KNOW YOU..
What's your full name?
Wilfred tee jin hoe but people call me wilfred, DYKT wilfred is my real
name... It's not a nick name... I actually have it in my birthcert....
and even stranger still.. I'm the only one in my family to have a firstname, the rest of my brothers are just chinese names, and my parents are full chinese names.... they do have english names... but only I use it all the time..... okay enough ego... I'm gonna back off now....

Your age:
25 *gasp* experiencing quarter life crisis this very moment.

Where do you live?
Starbucks (subang carefour), starbucks (times square entrance), bedroom, depends on mood, time and whether i'm meeting clients, chicks or friends.

Hair color?
Originally black, then I got bored, so it's now VCD seller brown + faded gold (*could be due to quarter life crisis)

*Cough* So do you plan to open a shop in Low Yat?

If you could dye your hair any color, what would you choose?
Since I've tried brown with gold hilites... I'm thinking of spiky hair with
blonde tips... either that or shave it shiny shiny bald like the mooon, then everynight I can tell my girlfriend... "to show you my love I've gotten you the moon...."

Eye color?
Black, but my eyes are in denial and think that they are blue. *shhhhhh* don't tell them.

Do you wear contacts/glasses?
Glasses, rimless... makes me look a 2000% more intelligent than I really really really am.

Occupation?
Bummer/dreamer - depends on hour of day

Can you touch your nose with your tongue?
Nope... is it true that guys who could do that get extra lucky with the
ladies? (*innocent look*)

NB: Since I'm a lady... nope, that doesn't impress us

Curl your tongue?
Yeah, curl it left right center backwards upwards and anyway I want.

Do you drive fast?
Give me a fast car and I will. I think my wira's trying to kill me, so I
usually drive slow enough so that I don't give it any chances.

Do you sleep with a stuffed animal?
Nope, used to have a stuffed sea turtle when I was still a wee little boy... the turtle was way bigger than I was.

How many different cities have you lived in?
Seremban (M'sia), kuala lumpur (M'sia), Vevey (Switzerland) *my favourite*

What's under your bed?
Forgotten memories, an evil past that cannot be brought back to light of day, dust bunnies, and a pet cockroach

What's on your mouse pad?
My mouse and a squeegy sort of hippo with glowing innards as a wrist rest. Will provide pic if you don't understand.

What book are you reading now?
None, just finished the mayfair witch series a weeks back, hunting for
something else to read, anyone got any recommendations? I think I feel like reading some romance....

Your most prized possession?
My humour, my carefree-ness, my patience, my laptop (girlfriend is not listed here cause (1) I don't have one... (2) If I ever get one, I don't consider her as a possession)

The next event/acquisition you're looking forward to?
Buying over starbucks? Or a nice book store with a well stocked variety of fiction novels, or tropical island... if it's event you're asking for then I think it would be my first meeting with my soulmate? Or experiencing love at first sight, or maybe just reaching a time in life where I've found a woman that I wanna spend my life with.


FAVORITE THINGS...
Favorite food?
Cendol

Favorite drink?
Currently caramel machiato

Favorite alcoholic drink?
Any Chilled white wine (not expired/spoiled ones.... cause I had the fortune of downing some not long ago, and my body didn't take it so well)

Favorite car?
Don't have any... I like fast two door cars (coupe), looking to acquire a
nissan 300zx sometime in the next 2 years as a Sunday car. Fell in love with the nissan 300zx when it first came out.. which is approx. when I was 10-15 or so...

Favorite sports?
Is swimming considered as a sport... ? if you're asking for spectator sport then none... but I enjoy swimming laps 2 hours straight alone, helps me clear my mind, used to swim 3-4 times a week, but schedule is tight and I'm lazy lately... hence the spare tyre around mid-section

Favorite time of the year?
Whenever I can do things that I wanna do (e.g. read novels in a beach chair in some nice tropical beach, sleep under the stars with the girl I'm dating, sit around, enjoying chilled fresh mountain air, staring in awe at the sheer imenseness of some glacier at Jung Frau).

Favorite relaxation spot?
1st choice, anywhere with handphone reception so that I can chat with an angel on the phone.
2nd choice, Anywhere I can find to rest my mind, soul and body. (*floating around in the sea at pulau redang with my eyes closed is good.... but then I'd be all crispy red skinned in front and unburnt at back for the next few days)

Favorite music?
Don't really have any favorite, currently in rotation on my winamp would be music genre of Lounge, café del mar, trance, ambience, OST from Samurai Champloo, Jem, euphoric vocals, erotic chillout sessions 2004, samsung chillout sessions vol3 2005, ono lisa, a little bit of bossa nova, goldfrap, best of chillout 2005, orchestral arrangement of Super Mario World soundtrack.

Favorite board game?
Don't really play board games, no one to play with (*pitiful lonely face*), had a lot of fun on twister once with a few girls *evil grin*(btw, is twister considered as a board game, cause I mean it's not technically a board issit?)

Twister!!! I love it too! I guess you could call it a... plastic sheet game? A board game that people step on? A game where you might get lucky getting twisted up with *cough* girls?

Favorite book?
Don't have any, but some that made an impression would be Boy + going solo - roald dahl, the belgariad, mallorean series by david eddings, some series by magaret weis about a teenage space empire royalty, various novels and stuff that range from fantasy -> scifi -> romance that I can't remember the title nor the author.

Favorite cartoon growing up?
Didn't watch much tv when I was a kid, kinda outgrew them pretty fast, so don't really remember the cartoons I used to watch, let alone having any favorite cartoon character.

Favorite movie so far?
Just recently watched wicker park - tears were welling up when hartnet and that pretty chick could feel like they were very near each other but still couldn't find each other caused by circumstances that would have been different if a certain stranger didn't walk between, if he didn't kneel down on the street at that exact moment, if she didn't turn around to help the old lady at that particular second.... if you don't understand what the hell I'm blabbering about then go watch the movie.... it's heart wrenching really (yes yes I'm a sensitive sob, so sue me)


ON ARP...
Member since:
16 Sep 2004

Discovered it through:
Leian Daishou

Most frequently visit: (i.e. BOG, which forum, news, reviews, etc)
Forums new posts.... especially the latest developments and events in the babe wars' thread. (hey, I'm a healthy guy with all the working parts, I can't help it!)

Fondest memory/Best thing about ARP?
ARP meetings and BBQs.

Person you would most like to meet from the community? (whom you've not met!)
all the ladies? Cause I mean, there's like a total lack in female interest
in IT stuff... so those who are actually frequent visitors in the forums
must be some really interesting ladies, I'd like to hear their story.

One thing you'd like to see on the site:
Ardian Wong's handsome face!


LIFE AS A BIG PICTURE...
What is the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning?
Sleep

If I had a lot of money, I would...
Build a tropical island resort with a private airport and a ski resort in
the alps with a private airport and a private jet and hire a staff to serve to the every need of my family friends and my wife/lady companions (* the phrase "wife/lady companion" is said in the context of exlusivity, one or the other, not both...)

If I had the time, I would...
Travel the world, see the sights, experience the cultures (not some stupid wake up at 6am, sit in bus 4 hours, see a castle for 10 min kind of tour package... I'd rather go traveling at my own pace, probably spend a few weeks at certain places, and maybe a few months at others)

Note: all this I'd love to do with ms. Right... cause travelling alone is
kinda pathetic... cause I'm sort of a guy who needs to have people around... I might get lonely sometimes.... not a very enjoyable travel if you're feeling lonely all the time...

What inspires you?
Beauty (not talking about girls... okay, partially, but I meant more of
beauty in the world, nature, mountains, clouds, sunsets, *never woke up in time for sunrise*, beaches)

Lifetime goals?
Live life to the fullest, enjoying every moment of it, making enough money to support the next few generations of my family without any problems, solve world hunger, and bring about world peace.

Note: the 2 last goals is something that I'm really really really dream of doing... I'm not saying just like all miss world candidate are supposed to say it... I'm saying it cause that's what I feel is lacking in the whole world.... I mean.. everyone's got a head, 2 eyes, 2 ears, 1 nose, hands and feet... why can't we all just get along.... it's stupid really... just like bickering among brothers and sisters... why can't people realise that we are all the same, and no one is better than the other... live with it... we're gonna be stuck here on earth for a while yet... so let's not blow it up and exterminate the people you don't like.

Who are you going to interview?
No idea yet.

Whoa, reading every line, all I could see was the word 'GIRLS'! time to 'attack' him, any way you like!

[Papercut]

Haha...funny

Originally Posted by djspinnet

Whoa, reading every line, all I could see was the word 'GIRLS'! time to 'attack' him, any way you like!

Gladly. So wilfred, how many girls have you gone out with in your life?
Describe your perfect girl

[PsYkHoTiK]

LOL!!! Love the answers... Go for the Vampire Chronicles since u've read about the mayfair witches..


Post a pixorz of ur VCD hair (and face )... You seem to have an appreciation of beauty. Why not take up photography? Or have u? If so, post pixorz of those too...

[aKho]

Whoa, reading every line, all I could see was the word 'GIRLS'! time to 'attack' him, any way you like!

yeah, i kinda get that vibe too..
sorta like a casanova eh.

ok, i got this question from a korean movie i recently watched..

1. if ur mom and ur gf is drowning and u can only save one of them, who would it be?

2. how u gonna go about solving world hunger and bringing peace to the world? any plans?

i recommend u try reading 'Wizard's First Rule' by Terry Goodkind, seeing as you like sci-fi and fantasy novels..

[wilfred]

Originally Posted by Papercut

So wilfred, how many girls have you gone out with in your life?
Describe your perfect girl

1) if you mean "gone out with" as in "dinner and movies" then i don't keep track... but if you mean relationships then i'd say 4 and a half.... (*the half is cause i have totally no idea what the hell it was all about... one of those strange strange relationships, but all of it i have good memories and times... none that i would like to forget*)

2) not sure actually... i think if you mix all of my ex's together in a blender it might be it... but then i think they have a lot of conflicting attributes though... so might come out as a monster....

Originally Posted by PsYkHoTiK

LOL!!! Love the answers... Go for the Vampire Chronicles since u've read about the mayfair witches..

Post a pixorz of ur VCD hair (and face )... You seem to have an appreciation of beauty. Why not take up photography? Or have u? If so, post pixorz of those too...

1) finished vampire chronicles a long time ago... maybe i'll go get them and read them again.
2) er... pics are?... go check out my friendster... wilfred[]dreamlessnights.com, for those who don't have friendster, too lazy to sign up to friendster, or never heard of friendster before... refer to attached photo..... and just in case you can't tell... i'm the guy... and if you've got touble with that as well then i'm the one in the center....
3) i can admire and appreciate beauty... but have problem creating... so i'm not really into photography... looking yes.. taking no...

Originally Posted by aKho

yeah, i kinda get that vibe too..
sorta like a casanova eh.

ok, i got this question from a korean movie i recently watched..

1. if ur mom and ur gf is drowning and u can only save one of them, who would it be?

2. how u gonna go about solving world hunger and bringing peace to the world? any plans?

i recommend u try reading 'Wizard's First Rule' by Terry Goodkind, seeing as you like sci-fi and fantasy novels..

1) casanova i am not... it's just that after 3 years of being single... i think it's time i start looking for someone to have fun with.... and also lately been feeling the hands of loneliness closing in.... must be the weather....

2) hmmm tough question, need more time to think of what i would do.... get back to you on this after a sleeping over it...., i'll post it in the thread...

3) plans yes, realistic? not very sure.... but that's for another time another day.

[Adrian Wong]

Woah.. You read David Eddings?

Try his Elenium and Tamuli series! They are all related.

Oh, you must try Robert Jordan's The Wheel Of Time!!!

BTW, what were you doing in Vevey, Switzerland? And how long were you there?

Any pictures??

[wilfred]

Originally Posted by Adrian Wong

Woah.. You read David Eddings?

Try his Elenium and Tamuli series! They are all related.

Oh, you must try Robert Jordan's The Wheel Of Time!!!

BTW, what were you doing in Vevey, Switzerland? And how long were you there?

Any pictures??

1) read them all... found the belgariad and mallorean nicer... maybe cause it's longer... more volumes and kept me out of trouble a little longer

2) I think i've read that before... i'm not sure... I've got a pretty forgetful mind when it comes to titles and authors and artists and actors...

3) Vevey, Switzerland - 3 years there from 1990 - 1993... was there cause dad was transfered to Nestle HQ, whole family tagged along... great experience... practically grew up in switzerland... got my english there too + a little bit of french... lost my chinese though. studied in International School of Lausanne (fomerly know as Commenwealth American School) had a great time, wish to have a place to retire in switzerland in the future...

4) as for pictures..... nope... got lah.. but lazy to dig out.. and not many, my family's not really into taking pictures...

*btw* you people call this interogation?.... ..... didn't even break a sweat.... (*except for gf and mum drowning question from aKho... still thinking *)

[Adrian Wong]

1. Really?? I've never read those series. Must go give them a try.

2. Eh, it's not complete yet. It's still a work in progress. I think there will be ten books in all. One day, I hope to buy the ENTIRE series...

3. Wow!! Must have been a really great experience!!

Eh, no pictures from that time??

LOL!!! Are you baiting them???? Beware of what you wish for!!! You may start seeing questions about "preferred positions", "preferred method of washing", etc...

[wilfred]

Originally Posted by Adrian Wong

3. Wow!! Must have been a really great experience!!

Eh, no pictures from that time??

LOL!!! Are you baiting them???? Beware of what you wish for!!! You may start seeing questions about "preferred positions", "preferred method of washing", etc...

3) yeah... really really great experience... beautiful country beautiful people, beautiful weather, beautiful place... got pictures lah... my mum's all kept it somewhere... either i go dig it up, or you go invent some sort of thing to plug into my head...

4) let the mayhem begin.... those are the questions that makes life a little more interesting....

[Adrian Wong]

Heheh.. Okay, let me begin..

Section A : All things toilet.

1. Do you prefer to squat or sit? Or maybe do it standing up?

2. Do you prefer to use toilet paper, water or a combination?

3. Do you prefer hard or soft stools?

4. How many times do you "bomb Berlin" a day?


Section B : All things girls.

1. What was the longest relationship you ever had?

2. And what was the shortest one?

3. Did you split amicably? Or did you do the splitting?

4. Any regrets?

5. Anyone you are targeting currently?

6. SERIOUSLY, tell us what would be your idea of the "perfect girl". Yes, we all know - there's no such thing as the perfect girl! Okay, okay, don't shoot me, girls!!!!!

7. Incidentally, is there anything that would be a real turn-off in a girl?

8. Do you believe in making the first move? Or would you prefer the girl to do it?

9. Do you believe in pre-marital sex? How far would you be willing to go? Would it be a pre-requisite for a serious relationship?

10. Do you believe in one-night stands?