Discussion in 'strawroot' started by strawroot, Feb 8, 2007.
There's always next year.
And make sure you drop by my house.
haha, for those auties, u know lah. they like to become part time wedding planner, if u told them u gonna get married, they will plan for you. FOC one,
haha too bad, for my family custom once u got married, ang pao no more mari mari.
hehehe if i got married, i every year during CNY i will go travel, hehehehe with my darling jajajaja...
I believe that's EVERY FAMILY's custom!!
That's the thing.. Not only you lose your angpows... you now have to give them!
It's the 'law' man!
Ok, the next one in ARP should be either Chai or Peaz. OMG... I can't wait. Give RM10 angpow... can have food and unlimited beer or wine...
Slowly wait la...
It's Peaz la... Chai, hmm.. It's just a matter of time too.
Girls may tell you they are "fine" with waiting, but it's just a matter of time...
yuppo you are right it all about time, time but depends on how long can a girl wait for the time to come.
"the time will come"
for me getting hitch is a big commitment, gagaga, once u been commited there's no turning back.. big responsibility o...
How long would you be willing to wait??
haha, me a weird woman, im kinda scared of married, even though my fren they always say i like eager to get married.
how long would i willing to wait depends on how much i love that guy.. hehehe
Wow.. You are UNIQUE!
What about kids? Do you feel the "urge" to have one soon??
Are you afraid of the next step after getting married?
haha, kids are cute but to bring up one in this society kinda scary.
u see how many kids been kipnapped but those "golden fish uncle"
and somemore the reason of me affraid of getting married is am i ready to this big commitment, i mean as a wife. it's not easy once u step into this big commitement.
That's the thing, isn't it? When we were kids, we all wanted to grow up and show how mature we are.
But now that we are grown up, we wish we could be our younger selves! No commitments, no worries.
Actually, I think society is just too suspicious these days. Too many kids have been lost to predators (sexual or commercial) merely because men (for example) have been pegged so often as devious sexual predators that many men now unconsciously ignore the presence of children in their midst to avoid being pinpointed as someone eyeing those kids.
It used to be the case where there's nothing wrong for anyone to look at kids. Now, any guy looking at a kid is a potential predator. Who can blame them for not noticing when a particular kid goes missing?
Besides, other than a few of these instances, most kids are actually abused by someone in the family... or someone close to the family. Statistically, it's more likely for you or a family member to abuse your children than a stranger.
So don't worry la... Unless you are just making use of this excuse to avoid the next big step in your life!
Well, i think most of the adult here wish they are peter pan.
In this society anything can happen, with the low knowledge of self protecting from the children, it's a bit risky to have kids nowadays.
I cant say i would not want to have kids but Im scared that i cant protect my children (is this something do to with women human motherly nature).
Getting married...erm abit early to think about it, let me get my Mr right first. I hope Mr Cupid is doing his job this year.
LOL!!! Remember, God only helps those who help themselves!
i have seen one father leashing his son in bangsar with a string like dogs' chain, well, i think it's a cool way to keep your kids from stampeding all over the place!
wow, i seen once as well at 1U, well for me, it's one of the protection incase the kids run here and there and got lost or even kippnapped.
Lucky it's in MY, if in western country, that father will be sue of abusing the kids.
Eh, you sure???? I think that is quite excessive.. and many people would be really angry about it.
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