So many? Hmm... maybe in the West but not much so in this part of the world. This part of the world, some don't marry for love. Or love faded as time goes by. When their marriage fail, they kept quiet because perhaps they already have children and don't want to think of so many complicated things. They just stay together under one roof but practically lead different lives. That's what I admire about the West. When the marriage fails, they divorce. Although it's not a good thing but it's better than to prolong the pain. That's why I'll only marry for love and nothing else. Love on both parties that is. And only when I have enough finacially to support a family that I'll consider marriage.
nah, ppl are waking up in this part of the world. look at china, with a very high divorce rate. u look like u r really an experience people huh? yea i agree wif u. maybe it's malaysia culture for not talking about divorce in the public. the west take it lightly. here, it's almost taboo. now we're talking about the worst thing for a guy to do lar, planning a divorce before his mariage.
I think China is more advance than Malaysia in terms of culture, technology, hmm... almost everything. Anyway, I don't look like... I just like to think about stuffs. What if stuffs... LOL! But it's not good to think too much, especially about these kind of stuffs... So, don't try this at home. Err... I'm not planning either.
But some of them are doing quite ok it seems. They become more independent. You see Malaysians... dependent like he*l! For me, after married, preferably... the wife should work. Coz if they don't, they will soon get really rusty. And if something were to happen to them later in life, they become helpless. Hmm... Just my 2cents anyway.
Sigh. Dash... You need to be more understanding! Anyway, regarding divorce, I don't think a lot of people can do it. Not just because of taboo, but because of FACE. Asians have very high face value...
being a regular divorcee,dont think its face,more like boredom with one person.sometimes we outgrow each other
oh no, then those people who gets boring easily with most of the things in this world need not get married?
Hmm... I wonder if I'll marry coz the cons seems more than the pros at the moment. I hope I'll change my mind later...
Seems like this thread has lost its appeal. But still, it's my best-viewed thread so far. Way to go Dashken!
J.LO: "lung you are totally wrong, I change my husband like the way I change my clothes" a real slut. I wonder how long can ben tahan 2 years?
LOL! J. Lo is hot! One night is enough for me. Haha... anyway, they are into this marriage and divorce thing for the news, for the limelight. Or else, their popularity will fade away. Luckily I'm not a celebrity, thank God.