hi guys and ladies, we were all in the middle and post-puberty already, so i assume that nearly everyone here had endured the pain (or no pain) of break-up, or even heart-broken (maybe u two never started, but who cares, the feeling was there)... so the point here is: how did u all got back from watever u lost? or wat did u do to reduce the pain? no pun intended from me, so i hope this thread does not spill salt on old wounds and lastly, congratulations on everybody who were still going on strong you all have made it so far, and it was never easy for anyone cheers, angel1011
i was heart broken really but i decided its the end dun wanna care bout it anymore took my quite some time :shiifty:
Almost broke my knuckles during the last one. But i kept myself active and did lots of stuff so i can forget.
Well, just keep your chin up and move on. No use dwelling over it right? Nothing will bring that back. If there was breakeup, there really was a reason for it. So just be happy with that. Make do with what you have in life...
My best advice: Avoid contact with your ex during the first year or two. Other than that I'm pretty much an expert on un-answered love, based on my own experiences during a (consecutive) period of about fifteen years from my early teens up 'til I was 30. During that period I was almost constantly in love (with one girl or another) but that love was only answered once, for a few months time, and that time it was her that fell in love with me first... /Olle
i was doing that.. but its a small world i seen her few times in tuition .. now i'm in the same college (i was planning to go to Inti Subang but i couldnt stand the environment)
I was so crazy over the break-up that i started doing stupid things.. Like cutting myself.. It was stupid. So stupid. I cut my arm so many time tht i didn't feel the pain anymore at that time.. And one of the scar is permanent.. Now i' so regret of what i had done whenever i looked at the scar.. OH GOD, PLEASE FORGIVE ME!!!!
Be yourself... Most important rule.. And don't be coming down on her full force... Friends first. get to know her...
PsY: Are you saying be yourself, or don't be yourself? 'coz Papercut asked about tips on what not to do...
why avoid contact? unanswered love tend to heal faster than real relationships, don't you think? real relationships really needs a lot of time to recover, since both parties had gave lots of effort to keep it going, and the moments u both shared, only to ended up in smoke.... papercut: from a gal's point of view, well, just dun fart n dig gold in front of her don't brag....u'll just screw up the whole thing
Been bitter and miserable ever since my previous break-up and never really got over it, however there's the ocassional revision of my goals in life but merely serves as a temporary distraction while I'm not dwelling on my past. :10 Ton SIGH:
