Do guys mind their gf earning more?

Discussion in 'Lounge' started by angel1011, Jan 9, 2007.

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Do guys mind their gf earning more?

  1. Yess!!! It damages a man's self-esteem.

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  2. Yes if she puts me down due to that.

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  3. No if only a small difference between hers and mine.

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  4. No!! I prefer a LICH gf coz I don't have to work so hard.

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  1. angel1011

    angel1011 Baby-DeeNoo

    hehe just wondering what are average guys' thinking :) the voters' anmes are not shown so go ahead and be frank :p
     
    Last edited: Jan 9, 2007
  2. ToyotaFreak

    ToyotaFreak Just Started

    I wouldn't mind really, just as long as the money is used & spent properly.

    In other words, no unneccesary sexpenses.
     
  3. ZuePhok

    ZuePhok Just Started

    oh beibeh absolutely not!!!!!!!!! extra moolah...why complain? :mrgreen:

    besides, i dun judge work by $ but passion!
     
  4. PsYkHoTiK

    PsYkHoTiK Admin nerd

    Why should it even be an issue? :mrgreen:

    A guy who cares about that is petty IMO. :p
     
  5. strawroot

    strawroot I Lurrrve Panda Biscuit!

    they say, guys who marry rich woman can work 30 years less, or break their legs also don't have to worry
     
  6. Chai

    Chai Administrator Staff Member

    No, unless someone makes a big deal out of it.
     
  7. peaz

    peaz ARP Webmaster Staff Member

    Should not be an issue at all. if the guy feel that way, better ask him to check his ego at the door. WTF, own GF also mind about this already... what about others?

    If it's an issue to him, it's his problem that he's earning less...
    I know a few couples who the girl is earning more, way more... I don't see any problems with them...
     
  8. Chai

    Chai Administrator Staff Member

    I'm not sure about the poll, I would vote a big NO!, but not because I don't have to work as hard.
     
  9. strawroot

    strawroot I Lurrrve Panda Biscuit!

    i think those old-fashioned men would mind, but not the recent generation, men generally think money=ego?
     
  10. redness

    redness Newbie

    nar, I won't mind. Not because I am a "little white face" or "eat soft rice", earning power should be not an issue in relationship, it is the ego and pride that is causing problem.

    Jealous of partner earn/spend more money, have richer family, more active in social circle, etc etc.
     
  11. zy

    zy zynine.com Staff Member

    if she earns more than me then good la :haha:
    means i dont have to give her extra cash de :haha:
     
  12. angel1011

    angel1011 Baby-DeeNoo

    eh that is unrelated to her salary one hahahaha!!!!:haha: girls don't mind the extra cash.

    I really met guys who tell me they mind gals earning more. But then it seems like majority of the voter don't mind a LICH gf, less pressure being the major "financial provider" maybe?

    the second top votes: no if the difference is not much. So does it means that if the difference is big, you do mind, and why? :mrgreen:
     
  13. Adrian Wong

    Adrian Wong Da Boss Staff Member

    Well, it's not a problem for me, unless the girl makes a big deal of it. Then the problem evidently lies with her. :mrgreen:
     
  14. Chai

    Chai Administrator Staff Member

    Same thoughts. Couldn't vote, can't find a suitable option for myself.
     
  15. Adrian Wong

    Adrian Wong Da Boss Staff Member

    I think the second option is the most suitable one - Yes if she puts me down due to that.
     
  16. Chai

    Chai Administrator Staff Member

    Ok, voted! :mrgreen:
     
  17. Max_87

    Max_87 huehuehue

    I actually wanted to vote 4, but I didn't because of the "I don't have to work so hard." part.
     
  18. strawroot

    strawroot I Lurrrve Panda Biscuit!

    heh i tot the part "I don't have to work so hard." is the whole idea? :p
     
  19. Adrian Wong

    Adrian Wong Da Boss Staff Member

    Indeed. :thumb:

    Well, I would love to have such a girlfriend. Sigh... :(
     
  20. Max_87

    Max_87 huehuehue

    Ahh XD

    When I first read the option, what I thought was "I don't have to work so hard (so i can work less and be lazy)" :haha: thats why I didn't vote it.
     

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